Jayden Jaymes Interview

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You’re known as an outspoken, straight to the point, no shit allowed kind of woman. Have you found that helps or hurts with your career?
That’s a difficult subject to touch on. Those that don’t know me would say that it hurts my career. Those that know me know that I’m really not this total bitch that everyone has this preconceived notion of. This business is known for its wild and crazy, sex-fiend girls. I’m not one of them. I enjoy sex, yes. But this is also my JOB… My income… My LIFE. I don’t have anything else, so I treat it as professionally as possible. I have a busy schedule, and a life outside of porn. I like to show up, do my job, then go home and get on with my life. The only time I’m ever a ‘bitch’ on set is when people are lagging, not doing their job, disrespecting me or trying to take advantage of me. I don’t put up with it. And I get the reputation that I have because the majority of girls would just put up with it and just pray that the day went smoothly. I’m not a pushover. I’ll stand up for myself. In turn, I have no problem posting about the ‘situations’ on my blog. If people get so hurt and/or offended about me being truthful about them on my blog, maybe they should learn to rethink their actions. I’m made out to be the bad guy just because, for once in this business, a pornstar is demanding professionalism. I don’t think the label is fair. For those who know me, I’m actually a big goofball on set. I laugh, I joke, I make funny faces at the camera and I have a good time while working. But all of that shuts down the second I sense unprofessionalism. If doing what I feel is right and standing up for myself gives me a ‘bad’ reputation, then so be it. At least I can look myself in the mirror at the end of each day without shame.

How old were you the first time you had sex? 14, but I didn’t have sex again until I was 17, and I think I became ‘sexually active’ around 18 or 19.
First girl on girl action?
I skipped high school one day and let a friend take me to get my nipples pierced. We ended up having a conversation with the girl that pierced me about how I had never kissed a girl before… and she planted one on me right there. I think I was 16. I think I was 19 with I first had sex with a girl. Some friends and I were drinking, one of the girls was really cute, and we fooled around in my bedroom for about an hour. I didn’t consider myself bisexual until I was about 21, when I started fantasizing about women.

You’ve mentioned being a ‘hopeless romantic’ in personal relationships. Were you always like this or has porn brought out the softer side of you?
I’ve always been a hopeless romantic. I’m not big on astrology, but I’ve heard that it’s a trait in us Aquarians. I may have this hard-ass ‘business’ exterior in porn, but ‘Jayden Jaymes’ shuts down the second I walk off set and I’m back to being just me. I love having boyfriends and being in relationships, going on dates, making out, and just being surrounded by love. I’ve always been this way. However, porn has taught me to be more free spirited with my sexuality and with my sexual relationships, which I think can only benefit a relationship.

What can you do for a partner (either on set or not) that you’re most proud of? I take it you’re asking in sexual terms, so… I love to go down on my partner, male or female. I’ll do it all the time and never expect the favor returned. Personality or looks? Personality. I don’t date attractive guys. I like ‘weird’. If you can pull off the ‘afro-wearing giant’ look and keep me smiling at nothing more than your goofiness, I’m in!
Do you ever get off to your own porn or is that just too weird?
I’ve never watched one of my scenes. I’ve watched the hilarious intros for a good laugh, but I can’t watch myself. Have you ever seen video footage of yourself drunk and think to yourself, ‘That’s not me!’ That’s how I feel about me during my scenes. It’s not ‘me’… That’s ‘Jayden Jaymes’. I like to think that I’m the same person all around for the most part, but a mental switch is triggered when I’m performing and I don’t recognize the look in my eyes during a scene. -

You have everyone very curious about this new contract you’ve signed… care to give us the exclusive (we’re not adverse to offering bribes)? Oh man! Umm… Toys… That’s all I’m saying! (There should be a press release coming on it in the very near future!)
And my personal favorite question: If you had to give up one of the following for the rest of your life what would it be; sex, oral sex or masturbation? Oh my God!!! I don’t know!!! I’d have to go with masturbation. I love the intimacy behind sex and I could never give up that with a partner.

Congratulations on your group win for the 2010 AVN ‘Best Group Scene”! How important is this acknowledgement for you?
Thank you, but I don’t need a piece of glass to prove anything to myself or anyone. It’s something that I longed for in the past… But it’s all politics. I knew that scene would win. It was no secret: It was an orgy that included ALL of their contract girls in their biggest movie of the year! I was only one twelfth of the scene, so I’m not going nuts over it. It’ll look nice next to my trophy from Nightmoves for the FAN VOTED ‘Best New Starlet’. The fan stuff means more to me than anything.

Along with your regular pornstar duties you twitter, you blog, you have a You Tube diary and you keep up with website forums with your fans. Is there any point in the day you’re not working?
You forgot about my MySpace page!!! Hahahahahaha. I guess you could say that I work all the time. I didn’t make a name for myself by not learning to promote myself. It’s hard work, but I’d rather have that relationship with my fans than pay an assistant or a publicist to do it. Besides, I love doing it. But, I do take time for myself DAILY, whether it is dining with friends, spending a casual night on the town without makeup and a trucker hat, getting pampered with a massage or pedicure, or even just a walk in the park with my dog. It’s important to have your ‘me time’… One would go crazy with it!

Your greatest extravagance?
My lifestyle doesn’t include ‘extravagance’. I don’t spend money on materialistic things like purses and shoes. I drive a BMW 3-series, and that’s about as extravagant as I get. I’d rather spend money on a nice vacation with family and friends than on a purse that society is going to tell me is ‘out of style’ two months later.

Your most marked characteristic?
My attitude. I’ve got spunk and a very sarcastic sense of humor that most people don’t understand and take the wrong way. It’s what I’ve used to help make a name for myself. The quality you most like in a woman and in a man? My answer doesn’t differ for the gender: I like independence and a fun personality.

I know you’ve been beaten over the head with the question but if I don’t ask I’ll be tarred and feathered; any upcoming anal scenes?
Hahahahahahaha! The NUMBER ONE question I get asked! I actually just lost my anal virginity about 2 months ago and I loved it! However, I haven’t done it since. But, I’ve put off the whole anal scene thing for long enough. I sort of pinky-promised Jules Jordan during the Adult Entertainment Expo this year that he’d get the first scene… and soon! All I’m looking to do is have one of my male talent friends break me in one more time before I do it on camera. So, maybe I can be so bold as to say that I will shoot my first anal scene within the next couple of months.

You have a ridiculously perfect body. Although there does seem to be confusion over whether your ass or tits are more perfect. What is your favorite body part? 
I hate the word ‘perfect’! My body is far from. I’m not saying that I hate my body… I LOVE my curves! But I would never say ‘perfect’. As for my favorite part of my body… Umm… Can I say my eyes? Seriously! I love my eyes. Okay, okay… If I had to choose between my booty and my boobies, I’d say my boobs for the simple fact that I’d much rather have no ass than no tits.

What would we find in your bedroom?
An unmade bed with a 50 pound labrador/pitbull curled up in it; A closet organized by color scheme; Dresser drawers filled with old wife beaters, socks and t-shirts that I’ve stolen from old boyfriends; An unnecessary collection of an insane number of scarves; A MAC computer.

Since we’re not only about sex here (ehem), what was the last great book you read? 
I love (auto)biographies of recovering addicts. Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I love to read about their struggles and how they’ve worked at overcoming their demons. The last one that I thoroughly enjoyed was ‘Leaving Dirty Jersey’ by James Salant. I’ve been going back and forth between Nikki Sixx’s ‘The Heroin Diaries’ and Russell Brand’s ‘My Booky Wook’ now, both of which are amazing… It’s just hard to find some peace and quiet lately to finish them!

Taken From : http://www.peeperz.com

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